Saturday, March 24, 2007

NumBnEss oR sTupiDiTY?...

In a world like this we always make choices. We all know that we have to be independent. We have to decide for ourselves. We have to be free. By these decisions we gain experiences.

Just like when falling in love. Some of us especially the first timers, do everything that their lover wants them to do. In relationships nowadays we cannot assure if someone feeling is true. It's either the boy or the girl are faithful and true or both of them are unfaithful and are just playing with the feelings of one another.

When the boy is faithful and true everything her lover wants is granted. Even though he knows that these things could be a start of bigger problems in the family, his circle of friends and other social environment. Even though it seems that he's doing all of these without using his common sense. This also could cause him to lie from his parents, steal other persons belongings, end relationship with friends and family, or even KILL.Even if the wish was only for the lover's contentment. In other words he is being STUPID. These also happens to faithful girls.

STUPIDITY is a common cause of psychological problems among stupid people. This is also like being a FOOL without a cause...All of us know we can't avoid being stupid. But once our lover tells us to do this and that and follow what she says, we look crazy.

To other people when they fall in love and get hurt and it caused them so much pain. Whatever the lover would do just for him to be forgiven we would never mind, and instead think of all the pain it caused us. We would rather think not to love. We no longer feel symphaty for our lover. Or hearts are turning in to stones. We would end up to the decision not to fall in love. This is the most common effect to broken hearted people, they become NUMB.

NUMBNESS is always present in life wherein we either forget someone or treat him as invincible, that he doesn't exist. But sometimes some people always comes back to forgive that someone. Maybe she doesn't want to be numb.

To those who are unfaithful, of course they don't become NUMB nor STUPID. Because they don't mind what they feel. If the girl is unfaithful just let her be unfaithful anyway I am also unfaithful. "who cares"; that's what everyone says.

If only everyone are faithful we won't have to be NUMB and STUPID. We could love that someone till the end we could live our lives to the fullest that is could be. we could go on with our dreams.

These two traits are all a part of the game of love. It's only either we become stupid or numb. You, which way would you go?

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